what a busy day

yesterday was a hell busy day for both of us.. we have to go all around jakarta to get things done for our future house and also to repair my dearest computer.. so 2 weeks ago (before moving to the rent house) my computer crashed and my boyfriend had tried many many ways to get it fixed but he failed.. then he found out that my WD hdd was corrupted.. I tried to contact WD Indonesia to get it serviced but I was dissapointed that WD doesn't' have any service center for HDD.. they only give replacement for their products during warranty period.. so we decided to buy new HDD at Mangga Dua and I refused to buy another WD even though it's #1 in the internet review.. 

then my dad said that the well-digger will start working on Saturday morning and we need to buy some anti-lightning cables to be inserted during the digging process.. he also asked me to check the jet-pump prices at Kenari Mas.. so my boyfriend and I got to go to Kenari Mas to buy the cables, bring it home, then go to Mangga Dua to find some new HDD.. 

so on Saturday morning, my boyfriend picked me up at Bambu Duri (our rent house) and don't forget that I got angry at him because he's late (again!).. I felt that he's ruining our whole-day schedule remembering we needed to go all around Jakarta and Mangga Dua usually closed at 5 pm.. so I didn't allow him to eat kue putu bambu I bought at previous night.. LOL~ first we went to my home because my Dad asked me to come but because we're late, the well-digger's boss already gone.. here's the progress of the digging:

around 11 am, we arrived at Kenari Mas and the place was amazingly full of people.. for you who didn't know what Kenari Mas is, it's a central market in Jakarta for electrical utilities such as lamps, machines, cables, and some of the shops also provides plumbing utilities.. I already had some recommended places from my friend but it's hard to find so when we found shop that sell jet-pump, we decided to ask the price.. my dad & uncle (and also the internet) recommended Sanyo, Hitachi, Grundfoss, Nochi, or Wasser but the first three are the most expensive so my coworker said Wasser is also okay.. my dad also said that we better took the stainless steel one, if possible.. so here's some of the prices we got.. sorry for the incovenience, but I've tried several ways to rotate the pics but everytime I upload here, they screwed up..

 

while searching for another shops, we bought the anti-lightning cables and some LED bulbs at Pioneer Shop (recommended by Aneka Pompa owner).. the shop was fully loaded of buyers so we believed the price is quite okay.. we bought 5 meters of 24mm copper cables (@IDR 19.500/m) and four 7 watt Phillips LED bulbs (@IDR 55.000).. I prefer the cool daylight tone than warm white tone because warm white is actually yellow and I really hate yellowish lamp.. I cannot imagine how my friend's house looks like because he once said to me that all lamps at his house were warm white tone.. total damage here: IDR 512.500 (paid by me)

because Aneka Pompa (which is recommended by my friend) gave us the lowest price, we decided to get back and buy the jet-pump here.. we finally bought the Hitachi with stainless steel tank.. we got it for IDR 4.6 mio here while other shops set the price around IDR 4.8 - 4.9 mio! please be noted that the shop only receive CASH payment.. but the BCA ATM was quite near from here, but you need to go down 1 level.. the shop-owner also recommend us to buy some brass extension to prevent the pump from being blocked because the pipes were plastic.. then she told her handyman to install the extension to the pipe.. total damage at this shop: IDR 4.850.000 (paid by ncen-boy)

the hitachi jet pump

since the machine was quite big and heavy, we decided that I went home by taxi bringing all the stuffs and my boyfriend ride his bike home.. I thought the machine is not that heavy because the handyman brought it alone.. but when I arrived home, I asked the taxi driver to take it out yet he couldn't carry it alone.. so my boyfriend helped him to carry it down.. total damage by taxi: IDR 45.000 (paid by me)

after taking a rest for a while, we began to start our next trip: bringing his desk fan home.. he got it from office's 17th celebration doorprize but he hadn't take it home.. so yesterday I helped him to carry it home.. such a lovely and understanding girlfriend, ain't I? LOL~

it was around half past two in the afternoon so I was really really hungry.. then we stopped by at Bubur Sapo Bun Ong, Bandengan.. we bought some groupon voucher and redeemed it there.. we got 2 portions of porridge and 1/4 steamed chicken (pak cham kee).. I chose chasio porridge, and he chose pitan egg porridge.. it was delicious but extremely hot.. we decided to add some cakwe and I bought 1/2 portion of steamed chicken for my parents.. total damage: IDR 56.000 (paid by me, exclude voucher)

bubur sapo bun ong

I also bought some bread at Home Made bakery nearby for tomorrow's breakkie.. then we went to his home to put the desk fan.. there's some accident here.. my bag fell down and my bottle drink opened so my bag was totally wet.. then I got angry again *facepalm* 

since it's already 3 pm, I forced him to go to MangDu now.. we directly went to Viraindo (Mall Mangga Dua 5th floor) which is famous for its cheap prices.. but there's no Hitachi HDD internal there.. then we decided to go to Enter Komputer (Mall Mangga Dua 4th floor) which is Viraindo's rivalry.. I thought it was closed already but then we looked down to the right and we realized that it's moved to a much much bigger place and its previous shop is now used for warehouse.. wow wow wow.. it even has some marketing counters to place orders, the cashier counter, and the last counter to take your orders.. it also has some monitor to view the queue line and they will call your name once your order ready.. I'm so amazed by the shop's progress.. but sadly, when I already at the cashier, the marketing ran to me and said the Hitachi HDD internal was not available.. then I decided to cancelled and take the reimbursement.. evidently the stock flow was not fully developed there.. I told my boyfriend to rush to Viraindo and buy some seagate HDD there because it's cheaper there while I was waiting for my order.. I bought TP Link wifi receiver for my PC and DVD-RW external for my sister.. she will buy new laptop (which actually ordered by my boyfriend and we have to take it to Bali next month) but the new laptop she wants doesn't has DVD slot since she wants a light laptop.. so this pretty and understanding lil sister decided to buy DVD-RW for her.. xixixi~ total damage at Viraindo & Enterkomputer: around IDR 900k 

the new Enter Komputer

after that we went to si engkoh tukang jual dvd (dvd seller).. we bought some DVDs there.. then my boyfriend wanted to buy COMEBUY but we cannot find it.. maybe it's closed already.. so we bought mcflurry instead hohoho

at around 5 pm, we decided to go to Estu Rame (he chose this place).. actually months earlier, we already went to Tanah Sereal to find the restaurant but we couldn't find it.. his friend gave a very weird hint: "you need to find Martabak Iwan first along the Jembatan Lima area (jl. KH Mas Mansyur) then you took the opposite direction and there's the Estu Rame".. maybe last time we went there, Martabak Iwan was closed so we couldn't find it.. this time we spotted Martabak Iwan on the right, then we turned left at Jl. Tanah Sereal XVIII (there's no road signage, but there's some dentist signage there called Drg. Husni Husada). Here's the googlemaps URL: https://www.google.co.id/maps/@-6.152627,106.807855,3a,20.7y,143.02h,88.05t/data=!3m4!1e1!3m2!1sSFqrz6N50LRIwx-HLKJduQ!2e0?hl=en

https://www.google.co.id/maps/@-6.152744,106.807866,3a,75y,61.92h,72.68t/data=!3m4!1e1!3m2!1sHEY53RT5WbFIJiEiHzuRHg!2e0?hl=en --> Estu Rame on the left

https://www.google.co.id/maps/@-6.152721,106.807999,3a,90y,296.89h,84.19t/data=!3m4!1e1!3m2!1snoaJfS9-Z2SxBXYrrA5fIw!2e0?hl=en --> from inside the Jl. Tanah Sereal XVIII road

Estu Rame is famous for its fresh cow milk.. but they also sell some delicious traditional food such as nasi goreng, soto, nasi rames, etc. I decided to order the nasi goreng spesial and susu madu, he ordered soto babat & daging and kopi susu.. we're satisfied with our orders.. the food was delicious and the milk was really fresh!!! I even took 1 liter home for my parents.. hahaha.. I forgot the price but it was less than IDR 100k.. the nasi goreng was 15k, 1 liter milk cost 14k, susu madu and kopi susu each cost around 9k.. we also bought some Martabak Iwan.. 1/2 keju 1/2 coklat kacang wijen for only IDR 38k.. so cheap! the queue was horror but the martabak is really really delicious.. my mom even said that it's more delicious than the famous (and expensive) martabak pecenongan.. hahaha.. the topping was very generous and thick.. 

susu madu, kopi susu

Martabak iwan

so that's the recap for our total busy day.. his motorbike even lost 1/2 tank of its gasoline.. hahahah..

how to get the boy :P

sudah lama rasanya tdk mengetik ngetik d blog saya yg satu ini.. maklum kebanyakan punya blog jadi gonta ganti sesuai mood aja nulisnya.. hihihi.. recently I wrote in my multiply account.. karena lucuuu.. bisa ada emo²-nya gitchu.. lucu kan.. hihihi.. tu tema gado² c.. banyakan kalo lagi neting, putus asa, dkk dll.. tapi belakangan lagi hepi banget kok.. jadi nulisny hepi juga.. hahaha..

kali ini mo nulis dgn topik: how to get the boy..

kenapa nulisnya itu? yah pengalaman pribadi aja.. sekali²nya pacaran eh dapetnya yg uda lama ditaksir dari jaman purbakala hindia belanda gitu.. hihihi..

emang c gw bukanny sekali ini doank naksir cowo.. in fact, I'm a typical girl who easily likes someone.. but to make me fall in love is quite hard.. apalagi buat yg namany jadian ya.. secara setiap ada yg menunjukkan itikad utk ber-PDKT rasanya gw langsung parno, takut, phobia dan end up menjauhi org itu.. huahua.. kacoowww sekali.. bahkan waktu itu ada yg rela nyatronin kampus gw setiap hari daaaannnn gw ga berani k fakultas gw.. wakakaka.. akirnya gw minta salah satu temen gw yg cowo buat jadi bodyguard sekaligus tembok gw.. jd kalo jalan, gw ketutupan ama temen gw dan tu cowo yg nyatronin gw ga ngeliat gw.. wuakakak.. gelo pisan euy~

entah kenapa ya walopun gampang banget gw buat naksir org, tapi buat bener² suka itu susa.. palingan baru 2x lah gw serius suka ama org.. ama pacarku yg sekarang itu yg pertama kali gw bener² yakin kalo THIS IS LOVE.. pas naksir ama cowo yg satu ini, diary gw beneran full banget.. inspirasi buat nulis puisi dkk itu lancaaaarrrr banget.. beuh jalan tol mah ga ada apa²nya deh.. hihihi.. 

bertahun-tahun suka sama yg ini nih ga berarti gw bener² berani nunjukin gw suka.. maklum waktu itu saya masi cupu.. masi SMA boo.. sementara dy ud kuliah (yg wkt itu rasany ud dewasa banget!).. jadi saya cuma bertengil² ria deh.. nanya PR.. nanya ini itu.. curhat sana sini, including curhat taksiran² sambilan saya waktu itu.. wkwkwk.. pokoknya ngerecokin melulu deh.. tp mah ga berani deh nunjukin suka.. hihihi..

tao² at the end of 2005, dy blg kalo uda jadian.. DAMN! my first broken heart ever.. mana pake acara dikenalin ke pacarnya yg cantik banget itu.. maklum.. model boo.. huhu.. orgnya baik c.. cuman yaaa tetep aja y namany pacar org yg lo taksir selama bertahun² rasanya gimanaaaa gituu.. jadi setelah tao dy jadian, gw mule mencemplungkan diri k dunia kampus.. naksir cowo laen lagi.. fall in love with him again.. ok saya emg pernah merasakan fall in love 2x.. cuma dua²nya berakhir menyedihkan.. yg pertama ya itu jadian ama org lain.. yg kedua ini gimana yaa.. sepertinya c dy jg suka sama saya (ke-geer-an kali ya??) tp mgkn karena dy itu cowo idola, ank basket, cakep, lalala~ mgkn agak mikir² gengsi jg kali ye kalo suka ama gw.. wkwkwk.. jadinya ya gitu kita deket cuma end up gw merasa gw cm dimanfaatin doank buat urusan kuliah dy.. btw emg kami dulu satu fakultas dan satu angkatan.. cm bedanya saya pinter, dy bego.. wkwkwk.. 

akirnya saya memutuskan buat move on dan ga mikirin si cinta kedua saya ini.. dan selama itu pula saya juga menjauh dari cinta pertama saya.. ya biar bagaimanapun dy jg uda jadian ama org laen.. sakit hati boo kalo inget² waktu tu.. hehe.. jadi saya berusaha menghindari dy wlpn kadang masi suka nyari jg.. namun intensitas percakapan uda ga seperti dulu lagi c.. 

terus proses naksir² cowo berulang kali terjadi lagi.. dan akhirny saya nekad buat pdkt sama salah satu cowo waktu tu.. sebenernya suka² amat c gak juga ya.. cuman waktu tu uda agak teramat sangat desperate krn ga laku² juga jadi yaaaa nekad aja lah boo.. apalagi saat itu gw lagi temenan deket ama beberapa cewe yg emg prinsip nekad ber-PDKT nya itu kenceng banget.. soooo dikomporin jugalah ama mrk.. wkwkwk.. 

tapi lama² saya mule bosen juga ama dy ya.. trus ditambah lagi sebenernya saya belum terlalu bisa melepaskan si cinta pertama itu tadi.. rasany kaya masi penasaran sama dy.. apalagi pas itu saya tau dy uda pisah ama pacarnya.. somehow gw penasaran sbenerny deep inside dy pernah gak c ada perasaan ama gw.. secara dy itu baik banget ama gw yg selalu ngerecokin ini.. nah karena rasa penasaran itu juga salah satunya saya ga berani terlalu deket ama cowo laen apalagi ampe jadian.. krn pikiran gw saat itu "gmana kalo gw jadian ama org laen dan saat itu si cinta pertama ternyata suka ama gw?" jd kayany beraaattt gitu loh..

terus gw menggila de.. gw akirny berusaha ngilangin rasa penasaran gw itu dengan menyatakan suka ama cinta pertama gw itu.. gilaaa rasanya panas dingin ga keruan.. ujung kaki dan ujung tangan tu dingin banget.. padahal mah confession gw itu jg via chat MSN jaman itu.. wuakakak.. kacow banget.. dan ternyata selama ini gw ke-GEER-an alias dy nya mah biasa² aja ama gw... wkwkwk.. walopun d akhir conversation wkt tu dy semacem kasi gw "harapan" tapi gw memutuskan utk melepaskan dy dan beralih pada gebetan baru.. yeah~

namun ternyata tdk semudah itu sodara².. karena saat itu gw uda kerja jadi sering online seharian ama dy.. ditambah dengan adanya masalah satu cewe pengganggu.. let's name her Miss PD.. why? karena simply dy itu ke-GEER-an banget ama cinta pertamaku..
nah si Miss PD ini tergila² banget ama cinta pertama gw ini.. sampe menobatkan diri sbg "soulmate" gitulah.. pokoknya istilah CINTA MATI tuh beneran dijunjung tinggi kayanya.. hehehe.. setelah terjadi pertumpahan darah yg memakai umpan si cinta pertama ku itu.. end up gw berantem (until now perang dingin) ama si Miss PD maklum saya ga rela ada yg ngaku² sesuatu yg bkaitan ama si cinta pertama ini.. sampe suatu Jumat gw liat si cinta pertama kayanya desperate banget gara² pertengkaran ini sampe dy majang status yg super desperado (ssuatu yg jarang dy lakukan sih).. sampe gw merasa bersalah banget nempatin dy dalam posisi ini.. logikanya kalo gw bisa let go my feeling for him, pasti ga akan jadi seperti ini kan? saat gw let go, gw jg ga akan peduli lagi si Miss PD mo ngaku² jadi pacarnya kek bininya kek emaknya kek.. gitu kan.. 

so akirny gw mutusin kalo gw akan menghilang dari hidup dia.. daripada membuat dy terjepit di antara 2 cewe "gila" yg nyusahin hidup dy dengan saling bersaing, padahalan mah dy nya kaga demen ama kita berdua.. wkwkwk.. sablenk jg yak.. tapi saya mah kaga ke-PD-an kaya si Miss PD ini.. saya cenderung pesimis so akirny saya pikir mundur sajalah.. nah gw ud bhasil tu ngedelete si Miss PD dari yahoo messenger saya.. tapi pas mo ngedelete si cinta pertama susa banget.. eeeeehhhhh dy keburu online sebelum saya berhasil neguhin hati buat klik "appear permanently offline" d ym dan "block this user" d MSN.. dan tumben²an tuh dy nyapa duluan.. 

and it turned out to be great.. dy blg dy suka juga ama gw!! wew.. that's kinda shocking rite? dan setelah melakukan PDKT yg cukup lama yaaa.. nyaris setengah tahunlah.. akirnya kami jadian juga sodara².. setelah sekitar 5 tahun saya suka sama dy, finally I get him.. hihihi..

oke cukup pengantarnya.. (panjang bner yak? @,@) eniwei.. what I'm trying to say here is why I finally get him but she (Miss PD) doesn't?

setelah gw renungin dan diskusi-in juga.. ternyata yg namanya ngejer cowo itu emg ga baik.. maksudnya ngejer d sini adalah menempatkan diri sndr sbg TTM or whatever it called, sementara si cowo belum tentu menempatkan dirinya sbg TTM anda.. it's not good.. 

menyatakan perasaan lo ke cowo itu? that's ok!

nembak cowo itu? menurut gw, masi ok..

stating yourself as his gf? a big NO NO..

saat lo menyukai seseorg, lo harus dan kudu memperlihatkan kalo lo suka ama tu cowo.. it's okay.. menurut gw, org itu bukan cenayang.. jadi kalo dy belum ada perasaan mendalam k lo dan lo jg tdk menunjukkan kalo lo suka, nah biar kata jodoh mo nyambung drmn coba ya? binun kan?

sementara kalo sbg cewe kita tlalu agresif, si cowo jg mostly ogah ya.. biar bgmnpun perasaan itu ga bisa dipaksa.. yg ada adalah pembinaan.. nah kalo si cowo ga dikasi kesempatan membina perasaanny k lo, sementara lo-nya uda terlalu heboh mengejer dy dan menyatakan perasaan lo kmana² (apalagi sampe ngaku² jadi pacarnya kemana²), well no wonder donk kalo si cowo mundur teratur..

sbg cewe, ke-GEER-an is a big NO NO.. jangan berasumsi apa² deh soal tindakan dan perasaan cowo k lo.. it'll be much better if you ask him politely.. krn apa yg ada di otak lo mostly salah.. alias ga tepat.. alias keliru.. dan saat si cowo uda bilang apa yg ada d pikiranny dan apa pendapat lo ke dy, please please please jangan pernah mengasumsikan yg laen dari situ.. jangan berpikir: oh dy belum berani jujur or something like that.. it will just hurt you.. cause this makes you live in such a never ending dream and imagination.. 

buat apa kita menyakiti dan merendahkan diri kita sendiri hanya karena suatu harapan yg semu? karena jelas² kita sudah tau apa yg sebenarnya dalam pikiran cowo itu..

berpikir taksiran direbut org? well.. itu mah emg cowony ga mao aja kali ama lo.. don't blame the girl who finally get him.. ini true story yaaaa.. sbg org yg dituduh merebut cowo org laen (yg sebenernya emg ga pnh jadian ama si penuduh), saya cape sekali loh menjalani hidup seperti itu dulu.. dituduh macem², difitnah macem², dan yg lebih menyedihkan adl si cowo itu malah dimusuhin ama temen² Miss PD krn fakta yg diputarbalikkan sama si Miss PD.. sometimes gw bertanya² jangan² si Miss PD ni org frustasi, depresi, dan tukang ngayal kali ya sampe² dy ga bisa bedain mana yg kenyataan dan mana yg cuma ada d otak dy.. 

tak tahukah dy kesintingan dy dan ketidakmampuan dy menerima kenyataan itu malahan ngerugiin org yg (katanya) dy cintai sepenuh hati? 

dikatain org.. dihina org.. tdk dipercayai ama org yg dy sukai.. well it hurts.. 

saya c sampe sekarang cuma berharap si Miss PD ini ga ganggu² hidup saya dan pacar saya lagi.. jangan sampe deh saya tahu kalo dy nulis² ato ngomong macem² lagi yg gak sesuai kenyataan ke org².. saya bukanny merasa insecured ama dy (secara saya tau betul kq pacar saya ga ada perasaan ke dy), tapi saya terganggu banget sama kelakuan dy yg insane dan gak bisa nerima kenyataan itu.. saya ga rela pacar saya dikira macem² ama org yg ga kenal dy dan cuma tau dy dari cerita gila si Miss PD ini.. 

yaaaa gw tao c kenapa si Miss PD ini ga bisa ngelepasin cowo gw.. karena emg c dibandingin cowo² laen d muka bumi ini, cowo gw mgkn termasuk jenis langka yaaaa.. jadinya dy ga bisa let go of her dreams and feelings.. but please, it's okay if you love someone.. but it's not okay to be such a disturbing girl and liar.. 

please realize whether you really love him or you just being selfish.. because if you love him, you wouldn't harm him.. 

so how to get the boy? be honest~ but prepare yourself for the worst.. like my friend said "do your best and prepare for the worst" because really you'll never know what will happen..