18 months milestones

this January, J turns 18 months and he's officially a toddler.. he often refused to hold adult's hands and insist to walk on his own (but he usually try to run and then seem to fall so we insist to hold his hand).. 

mama wants to recap some of his new milestones.. seems not much these days but mama will try to memorize it:

1. can count one to ten in Bahasa but often refuse to say 7 (don't know why)
2. loves to say A-I-U-E-O but dislike ABC hahaha
3. walk more properly 
4. small run sometimes
5. loves to try on adults' home sandals
6. imitate adult easily.. we don't even know when he learns it! like yesterday, he puts Engkong's sandals vertically on the wall and he said it's just like Ahma did (and yes he was right!)
7. able to arrange simple sentence.. like yesterday he said "mama, engkong mandi" when Engkong was in the bathroom.. well actually Engkong peed and yes we told him the correct one, then he said the right activity..
8. very very very attracted to kitchen equipments..
9. loves Upin-Ipin too much and yes he learned a lot from it.. so I allowed him to watch youtube several times a day but I tried to limit the duration bcoz back then he seemed stressed after too much watching LOL~
10. cannot count his teeth.. they're so many.. he already had the molars but don't know how much.. lately he complained about his teeth a lot.. I don't know whether it hurts from the caries on his upper incisors or bcoz he's growing some molars.. we'll see the dentist this weekend and hoping he won't be traumatised like before..
11. he gets angry easily but we (esp. his babysitter) teach him to manage it.. hopefully we would suceed..
12. loves to pretend playing drums! he loves music.. he even managed to dance and sing while listening to music.. super cute.. when he watched dangdut in tv, he was able to imitate dancing asereje hahaha..
13. loves to tease people, esp his daddy.. he would scream loudly when he saw his daddy.. loves to laugh a lot
14. very very attached to mommy recently.. I'm curious if he suffers separation anxiety these days.. tried my best to cuddle with him every day..
15. poop is still a problem for him.. 

Happy New Year 2018!!

yeayyy.. second new year celebrated as mom.. hehehe.. it means two times worrying if the fireworks would wake my baby up and thankfully a second NOPE!! praying hard J would sleep before 10 pm so he would be in deep sleep mode when the clock hit 00.00 and yes it's done.. praise the Lord!

lately he was such a mama's boy and when I was home for 10 days year-end-holiday, he was really possessive about me.. he demanded to hold my hand whenever he walked.. refused others' hands including his babysitter.. even when I wanted to go to the bathroom for a pee or poop, he would scream loudly and sometimes he even threw a tantrum (crying so hard that neighbour would think I had slapped him hard LOL~).. really he's going into the drama era of his age.. he always said "mama tenteng" means he wants me to hold his hand.. he also love to say "mama nenen" or "mama bobo yuk.. nenen.." and he even escorted me to the bedroom.. what a cute boy he is! 

sometimes I felt so tired that I wanted him to get away a lil bit from me but he refused.. sometimes he accepted and go play with his nanny.. but mostly not.. yet I always warn myself that this too shall pass and I'm the one who lost it then.. so I tried (hard!) to calm down and be patience (God knows I'm not a patience girl!!).. I'm his mother and I'm his world for now.. as he's getting older, I know he wouldn't need me or want me that much.. so I will enjoy this killing-my-back-and-shoulder era as much as I can.. 

little J, mama will always love you and always be there for you.. whenever you want to be spoiled or just want to be heard or want an accompany, tell mama and I'll be there.. 

J would hit 18 months in days.. yet he surprisingly becomes a more-nenen addicted than before.. my friends who have child in his age also said the same.. well let's hope and pray it won't be too much drama when it comes to weaning time.. and as he nenen more than before, he also experienced the GTM era.. he even caught fever (37.4 C) on Sunday.. I felt that his gum a little bit swollen so I think it's another teething.. he already had so many teeth and even some of molars.. let's hope this GTM won't affect his development too much and he'll be on track for the weight and height.. next week we'll visit the paediatrician for regular vaccine injection.. so fingers-crossed until then!

another milestones:
- start to run and more stable
- start to love going outside and refuse to go home
- talk a lot (like A LOT!)
- more and more words that mama stop counting LOL~
- start to love to spoonfeed himself
- tell mama/ncus if he wants (or already done) pee or poo (SO PROUD OF THIS!)
- knows and remember people, names, things, etc
- loves the number 2.. anyone asked him "berapa?" and he always answer "DUA!"
- loves to count "tu wa tu wa"
- loves UPIN-IPIN, teletubbies.. his fave character was meimei..
- already remember his ieie and able to ask to call/videocall her

anak mama

belakangan ini J makin manjaaaa banget sama mamanya.. tiap mamanya pulang, langsung pura2 nangis dgn muka super lucu (sayang gak pernah sempet foto/rekam) mata merem2 gigi monyong2, minta digendong sama mamanya.. padahal biasanya anteng tuh nunggu mamanya beres mam & mandi.. ini kadang mamanya makan harus sambil mangku si J dan kadang kena palak jg makanannya.. hahaha.. pagi pun kudu banget masuk dulu k mobil duduk2 dulu.. bahkan kemaren sempet dipasangin seatbelt, dy malah berdoa.. hahaha.. bisa banget ngikutin orang gede dehhh.. 

bersyukurrrr banget liat perkembangan J yg tetibaan kaya cepet bgt gitu loh.. bersyukur dy tumbuh sempurna dan normal.. bersyukur masih bisa setiap hari melihat perkembangan dy walaupun kerja tapi anak tetep nempel banget.. bersyukur masih bisa mengASIhi dy sampai 16.5 bulan ini.. bersyukur J skarang makannya lumayan deh gak sampe kaya dulu.. bener2 semua gw syukuri banget dengan adanya J.. 

masih berusaha juga menjadi ibu yg lebih baik buat J dan tentunya istri yg lebih baik buat papanya J.. semoga bisa menjadi contoh yg lebih baik untuk J sehingga J bisa tumbuh menjadi pribadi yg terbaik.. 

oh iya sekarang lagi muncul milk blister lagi.. sakit bgt.. uda diapa2in blom berhasil pecah jg.. tapi buat nenenin sih uda ga terlalu sakit.. semoga cepet ilang deh ini.. uda 16 bln masi aja ada problem mengASIhi nya yaa..

16 months is the month

Finally J berani utk jalan sendiri sehari menjelang umurnya 16 bulan..mama is so happy..apalagi 2 minggu sebelumnya tepatnya hari Kamis tgl 25 Okt 2017 J akhirnya lancar manggil Mama..selama ini J manggilnya Baba..kadang2 aja mau panggil Mama..sekarang lancar banget manggil Mama dgn nada khasnya yg manjaaa abissss..

Menjelang umur 16bulan ini J sakit batpil lumayan lama 2.5 minggu..ternyata J mau pinter..jalannya pinter (wlpn skarang masi hobinya digandeng)..trus makannya jg masi pinter, malahan belakangan suka malakin nasi mamanya..udah gt ngomong jg makin pinter..

Sekarang J uda bisa bilang:
1. Mama, papa
2. Kong, Ma (ama)
3. Ie ie
4. De (bude/pakde)
5. Kakak
6. Cece, cici
7. Koko
8. Dede
9. Tedy
10. Tuh (itu)
11. Ka (buka)
12. Heeh
13. Gak
14. Gapapa (ini ud agak lama)
15. Nda ada (sambil tangannya dibalik ngadep atas)
16. Aem, mam
17. Bang (kembang..uda lama jg)
18. Tupu (kupu2)
19. Cu (sus)
20. Gigi (sikat gigi)
21. Jan (ujan)

trus kalo kita ajarin ngomong suatu kata, dia uda bs ikutin buntutnya..kaya kmaren kapuk, langsung bisa puk-nya..hehe..udah lumayan kan bisa ngomongnya..oh iya uda bs nyebut diri sendiri, biasanya Jeje..kadang2 bisa Jacob tp blom jelas..kalo mobil masi dsebutnya brem brem..hehehe..

Semoga J tambah pinter ya..mama bangga sekali sama J..semoga mama bisa ajarin dan bimbing J terus sama2 papa, ama, ngkong yah..love you my baby..

milestone summary

mo update soal Baby J tp borongan.. hehehe.. mo merangkum new abilities nya my baby supaya kalo ditanya, mamak masih inget hehehe.. gak urutan ya.. seingetnya ajah..

• merangkak: start 9 bulan.. sbelumnya merayap
• bisa tunjuk mana kepala, mana kaki, mana perut: start 9.5 bulan
• mule susah makan: start 8 bulan.. tapi masih masuk makanan... bukannya ga masuk sama sekali
• mule bdiri2 tapi dipegangin: start 9 bulan
• mule minta dititah2: start 9 bulan lebih sedikit
• bisa panggil papa: start 7-8 bulan kayanya
• numbuh gigi: start 5 bulan (sampe umur 9.5 bulan ini baru 4 gigi blm nambah2 lagi)
• hobi dadah & kiss bye: start 9.5 bulan
• duduk sendiri: start 9 bulan

kayanya baru itu aja yg inget hehehe.. ntar diupdate lagi yah..