Happy New Year 2018!!

yeayyy.. second new year celebrated as mom.. hehehe.. it means two times worrying if the fireworks would wake my baby up and thankfully a second NOPE!! praying hard J would sleep before 10 pm so he would be in deep sleep mode when the clock hit 00.00 and yes it's done.. praise the Lord!

lately he was such a mama's boy and when I was home for 10 days year-end-holiday, he was really possessive about me.. he demanded to hold my hand whenever he walked.. refused others' hands including his babysitter.. even when I wanted to go to the bathroom for a pee or poop, he would scream loudly and sometimes he even threw a tantrum (crying so hard that neighbour would think I had slapped him hard LOL~).. really he's going into the drama era of his age.. he always said "mama tenteng" means he wants me to hold his hand.. he also love to say "mama nenen" or "mama bobo yuk.. nenen.." and he even escorted me to the bedroom.. what a cute boy he is! 

sometimes I felt so tired that I wanted him to get away a lil bit from me but he refused.. sometimes he accepted and go play with his nanny.. but mostly not.. yet I always warn myself that this too shall pass and I'm the one who lost it then.. so I tried (hard!) to calm down and be patience (God knows I'm not a patience girl!!).. I'm his mother and I'm his world for now.. as he's getting older, I know he wouldn't need me or want me that much.. so I will enjoy this killing-my-back-and-shoulder era as much as I can.. 

little J, mama will always love you and always be there for you.. whenever you want to be spoiled or just want to be heard or want an accompany, tell mama and I'll be there.. 

J would hit 18 months in days.. yet he surprisingly becomes a more-nenen addicted than before.. my friends who have child in his age also said the same.. well let's hope and pray it won't be too much drama when it comes to weaning time.. and as he nenen more than before, he also experienced the GTM era.. he even caught fever (37.4 C) on Sunday.. I felt that his gum a little bit swollen so I think it's another teething.. he already had so many teeth and even some of molars.. let's hope this GTM won't affect his development too much and he'll be on track for the weight and height.. next week we'll visit the paediatrician for regular vaccine injection.. so fingers-crossed until then!

another milestones:
- start to run and more stable
- start to love going outside and refuse to go home
- talk a lot (like A LOT!)
- more and more words that mama stop counting LOL~
- start to love to spoonfeed himself
- tell mama/ncus if he wants (or already done) pee or poo (SO PROUD OF THIS!)
- knows and remember people, names, things, etc
- loves the number 2.. anyone asked him "berapa?" and he always answer "DUA!"
- loves to count "tu wa tu wa"
- loves UPIN-IPIN, teletubbies.. his fave character was meimei..
- already remember his ieie and able to ask to call/videocall her

planning J's very first trip

jadi rencananya pertengahan bulan ini kami akan ke Bali.. ya ya ya niat hati utk gak jalan2 sampe anak bisa menikmati tinggal wacana.. emak stress butuh liburan.. tiba2 ada wacana dari kantor ngadain outing ke Bali.. apakah tidak ikut? sayang donk ahhh.. tau sndiri kalo gratisan, gw paling demen wkwkwk.. apalagi tanggalnya pas banget sama ultah nyokap gw.. so jadinya perginya boyongan.. ga cuman bawa suami + anak, tapi bawa bokap + nyokap jg.. hahaha.. alasannya sih ya itu ngerayain bday nyokap sekalian nengokin cc gw yg uda setaon ga pulang2 hahaha..

nah langsung donk kebayang bakalan ribet banget nih trip sama si J yg super ga bisa diem.. gw ga bawa sus, belum mampulah gw hahaha.. ini aja budgetnya ud tiris gara2 tiket naek terus2an (dan kantor gw ga bayar2 tu tiket jadi makin mahal KZL).. rencananya nginep di HR Hotel (dan belom disettle juga tu DP nya huhuhu).. jadi harusnya kids friendly lah yaa.. uda request connecting room biar gampang kalo nitip2 si J ke ngkong&Ama nya hehehe.. 

paling awal itu gw pusingin makannya krn si J belum terlalu bisa table food, terutama nasinya.. nasi dy masih nasi tim jd lembek2 gitu.. mana baru aja sembuh dari sakit yg so far paling parah kayanya seumur hidupnya yg nyaris 14 bulan itu.. jadi dagdigdug jg nih makanny ntar gmana.. tadinya niat banget mo beli rice cooker mini or at least bawa slow cooker.. tapi kok ya males banget gitu yaaa.. end up niatnya bakalan bawa instant food.. sarapan ngikutlah ya di buffet hotel (mudah2an bisa ngebungkus ya hahaha).. kalo buat d jalan ya kalo bisa makan, si J ikut makan.. kalo gak ya makan instant food aja deh.. namanya jg liburan ye kan..

buat mandi, untungnya di hotel ada bathub.. tapi denger2 susa jg ya krn licin.. jd mungkin judulnya akan mandi bersama2.. kelar mandiin J, kasihin bapaknya buat dikeringin & pakein baju.. mamanya lanjut mandi hahaha.. trus kalo buat jalan2, tentunya bawa stroller (mothercare jive) plus gendongan SSC Nana tercinta.. 

kemaren sebenernya tergiur bgt nambah gendongan SSC impor gitu loh.. soalnya si Nana ini rasanya uda mule kurang nyaman.. apalagi J uda nyaris 10kg.. trus mule ga bisa diem (ini sih dari dulu).. tapi kan tetep perlu gendongan apalagi ni anak blom jalan juga (mamak mule cemas).. jadilah googling2.. naksir antara tula atau boba 4G.. tapi kemaren kok make si Nana, disetel2 lagi, eh enakeun lg ya.. ya udalaaahh lanjut aja pake ini dulu hahahaha..  *mama pelit*

sempet nanya DSA juga perlu gak ya vaksin JE dulu sebelum berangkat ke Bali? soalnya vaksin JE (Japanese Enchepalitis) ini agak susa loh.. d Premier Jatinegara gak ada.. adanya d rumah vaksin (murah sih sekitar 400an di bawah gopek).. tapi kok malas ya ke sananya.. menurut DSA J, krn kita org Indo kalo liburan ya d touristy spot kan jarang k desa2 pelosok yg ada peternakan babinya.. jadi harusnya pake mosq repellent cukup ya.. jadi beli deh stiker anti nyamuk merek crown di tokped.. 

nah so far yg uda disiapin buat J:

1. baju2 baru (kaos kutung, celana pendek, cardigan beli di Uniqlo ama merek cuitbabywear)

2. topi pantai (beli di mothercare)

3. sunblock (merek purekids)

4. diapers premium (antara bawa sweety gold atau merries putih)

5. ban renang + pompanya (beli ban merek intex)

6. celana renang (hibah koko Moses)

7. stiker anti nyamuk Crown

8. instant baby food merek Peachy (aneka rasa, bawa 8 pcs buat 4 hari 3 malam)

koper sama termos makanan rencana pinjem onti Like.. soalnya termos makanan J kurang awet panasnya (menyesal beli barang murah.. kayanya ini bisa nih dibikin postingan sendiri).. so far itu dulu kayanya.. semoga tripnya kali ini lancar jaya deh..